Sometimes I find myself is afraid of something which I cant to meet. Maybe I thought to much,all the conditions are complexible which make me lost all  courage to do the nearly correct actions.

I know someday I will regret about this.But I dont know what . . . → Read More: Tomorrow is Christmas Day]]> Yeah,Tomorrow is Christmas Day! Tonight,I havent already to pass.

Sometimes I find myself is afraid of something which I cant to meet. Maybe I thought to much,all the conditions are complexible which make me lost all  courage to do the nearly correct actions.

I know someday I will regret about this.But I dont know what happend to myself that I cant see my heart clearly.

The great comedy is life will be more beautiful in future.

The great tragedy is we all cant go back.

The luckest thing is  something changes and something not.

What  the happiness will be If I can find someone who is ready for me, just like the English song sings ” I’m yours forever! “.

Yesterday,I had a talk with my friend that Today the marriage is not so stable, but the friendship between friends who dont have any conflict  on benefits is more stable.

Because We meet friends not day by day ,hour by hour. just times in a week or  a month or a year.  when we find someguy to face  hour by hour even minute by minute ,maybe we will change that moment. And we cant promise a perfect result which is up in the air.

When we face the truth we all shamed !  Sounds a  little shit, but sometimes I’m afraid that It’s true.

Tonight  my mood is not peaceful, SO I have  something to express,and I have expressed, Now I just need a good sleep, I hope that ” Tomorrow is another Day”!

So poor English,If you can read me,3Q!   

My friends even including myself always suppose that I am special.But I . . . → Read More: apologize to you]]> I havent understand what happened to make you unhappy. Then I know I have offended you.Sometimes I always say something  without my heart just like joking, and I didnt realise the effects on other guys.So I admit that I have done something wrong.

My friends even including myself always suppose that I am special.But I would like to believe ‘Everyone is special’.  And we all are different, So maybe you cant accept something which I can accept easily. and I cant accept something  which you have accpeted. It’s normal & all right.

As far as we know, There are many rules in the world which keep the world stable.But No one can judge them right or wrong, we just see they work well . When we know the rules deeply ,one possible result is we would like to make new rules.We start learning to accept something we didnt accept before, and we start learning to  say’NO’ to something we had to accept before. Then we extend ourself, we are going big.

An girl is so  sensitive beyond my imagination.If the bad things cant be broken ,how longer it will last ,I have no idea.So I want to say sorry for what I said before. Sorry for I ignored your feeling!

When the topic is ‘apologize’,I have many words to say,but too many to tell them out easily.some is about ‘promise’ which make myself  lost trusts from others. some is about ‘misunderstanding’ which make myself  lost the important relationship with some guys. some is about  ‘regreting’ which make myself lost the chance to do something  without regreting in future.

So poor english! If you can read me, just thank you!

I saw many guys wear more clothes than me,It looks like Everybody just enter  Winter in one day today.

Even if The wind is so big and . . . → Read More: the windy in Qingdao]]> This morning I feel a little cold.The big wind is blowing and blowing , my face dont feel good ,how wise I am wearing warm clothes today.

I saw many guys wear more clothes than me,It looks like Everybody just enter  Winter in one day today.

Even if The wind is so big and makes you feel cold,the Sun is good , and the Sky is so blue without any cloud. I have a little like this weather.One more thing we should regard is that we need a little water under this weather.

Everybody Cares!

When I was a child, I was regularly admonished to “respect your elders.” During those early years I knew that I had to respect them because they took care of me, gave me guidance when I had no direction of my . . . → Read More: why should we respect our elders]]> Our elders already deserve our respect because they once took care of us.

When I was a child, I was regularly admonished to “respect your elders.” During those early years I knew that I had to respect them because they took care of me, gave me guidance when I had no direction of my own, and, I feared, could discipline me for refusing to bend to their will. Still, whether due to my own impatience or my incomplete grasp of the rules, I sometimes questioned my parents’ authority and often tested the limits they set for me. It was only years later that I began to see the wisdom in their ways and sought, rather than avoided, their counsel. I used to think it amazing that my dad seemed to know so much about practical psychology and that the people he worked with valued him and often sought his assistance. I now realize that so much of what I have come to value in myself I became because of my father and my mother.

Sometimes (often) our elders can work as hard and perform as well as we can. Let’s respect them for that.

When I was in college I worked at an orchard, pressing apple cider. I was the youngest member of the crew. The man I worked next to from six in the morning until long after noon was named Vern, and he was seventy-two. He had been a farmer and was working through his retirement. Besides manning the hose, pouring the pulp into formed canvas sheets and then guiding the fifty-plus-gallon press run (one slip and it’s pulp everywhere!), we both had to “throw” the almost dried remains into a large bin using a vigorous and sometimes repetitive flicking movement. This was nearly constant physical labor, and Vern never flinched or missed a beat. He and many of my elders taught me lessons of hard work and perseverance. Working alongside my elders also gave me a deep appreciation for the continuing contributions that older adults can provide for our society.

Our elders have accumulated a lifetime of experience. Let’s respect and listen to them when they have something to say about the most important things.

Nearly twenty years ago to this day, my grandmother was lying in her hospital bed during her final hours. In a quiet moment in the middle of the night, she whispered to me, “When you were in the hospital, were you afraid?” She was talking about my childhood experience with polio, when I was taken miles from my home and my parents. I was, of course, terrified nearly the whole time. Listening to the deeper meaning of her question, I nodded and then asked, “Are you afraid?” “No,” she said—and she was fully aware of her fate. She then took a small ring from her pinky and asked me to give it to my daughter. These moments and others shared that evening showed that she had come to a point in her life when the most important thing for her to do was no longer about herself and her own projects, but about us, her loved ones, and the lives that we had still to live. She stayed with us through the next morning before she passed on, but I will never forget the lesson she shared with me about moving without fear from this life to the next.

It is in our own interest that we give our elders their due respect. Even more than respect, we need to give them our time and our listening, our interaction and our gratitude. This is true no matter our present age, nor theirs. It’s a win-win situation.